Tuesday, July 02, 2013
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Monday, June 10, 2013
Well Well Well the years melt like vangogh's clocks but not with the sticky solidarity of still recognizable landscape but into the mush reminiscent of re-fried beans. As we realize this, two choices are thrust upon us; To muddle waddle unclean to the next semi-firm shore or to slowly descend into the ooze, the stagnation that life leaves behind in its backwater eddies. So, being depressed I sat in that glop for about 4 years. My days consisted of seeing how many 24 ounce Keystone Ice beers I could consume in a day. How many times I could get more, and how I could get more for the morning. Well someone had to do it. For everyone that turns into a falling down lush someone has to turn into a hyperactive over achiever. That's my theory. If I had stayed active instead of being a falling down waste of sperm, Angelina j Jolie would still have breasts and 3 less children and her foundation would have done housing brochures for the tsunami victims instead of actually housing. I did my part. Well finally this March during my gala birthday extravaganza I met this guy that had been staying on the down stairs couch. A friend of a friend. How friendly. He was not fondest thought of by my friends. I FELL IN LOVE. There is not a single thing about him that I dislike. He has cornflower blue eyes flecked with gold that sparkles like goldenshlager when the light hits them just right. When he smiles his lips don't just turn up, his entire face smiles. His eyes sparkle and turn up at the corners. His ears wiggle upward to attention. He is the sweetest, cutest, most unassuming bad boy. He can go from cultured to gutter and back in less than seven seconds. Name some heavy equipment, he prolly drives it, he roofs sheet rocks, and paints. He can quote you famous novels and knows his way around a computer screen with skill. He's has a strong honor code. He is tough as nails, springy as steel, muscled and tight. And yet he can come across as a fragile tender bird in the next breath. He has the soft dark brown hair of a teddy bear, then when cut short gives him the appearance of a military clean cut guy. He has been burned by those he loves and he always seems to give second chances. Many people give the attitude that he doesn't matter, that he is worthless and can be treated with a casual unconcern. Many people are very wrong and self important. That feeling leaked into my thoughts for oh, about a minute, that I didn't need to care what he thought. Now that is all I think about.I haven't had a drink in 37 days now. I told him that he deserves a friend that isn't a puddle. He said that's good cuz he wants to do things with me, not skip stones off me. Spending any time at all with him has lead me to believe that he is truly a treasure and I thank God that I have had him come into my life. He tells me that he is not gay, but that he is my boyfriend. He has told friends of his that we are sort of seeing each other and when hit with...WHAT?...answers with....you know, dating. He has said he is not gay but this is the best relationship he has ever been in and that he is the most comfortable that he has ever been in any relationship. He says he is not gay. He has 2-5 children. And a temper he needs to be talked down from. He has a refreshing innocence. I want to be attached to him at the hip for life. Considering I am not partial to my own kind, this drives me wild. As does when he brushes his razor stubble against my face or neck. My whole life, nothing excites me more. When I am sick and may have to be at the hospital over night he says he will stay with me. He says a family member can do that. He says they can't stop a significant other. I love this man with all and who and what that I am. I can not see an end to it. For better for worse. I have made a decision. I have made a commitment. For the first time in my life, I have a man of my own that I can call my boyfriend. MY boyfriend. My BOYFRIEND. MY BOYFRIEND!!!!! Feels strange, yet strangely wonderful. It just rolls off the tongue. Funniest thing, the reason I didn't have a boyfriend when I was 25, my 28 year old man hadn't been born yet. There is a quote on his facebook page....to the world you may be just one person, but to one person you just may mean the world. His birthday is 3:16....His favorite Bible passage, John. Who would a thought?
Monday, May 14, 2012
Just some words of wisdom: It takes and entire cow to make one burger. (Meaning, all our experience makes up one little thing. Meaning, what we are looking for is the pearl. All else is meaningless. Meaning there is a lot of waste getting to the goal Meaning that the whole is sometimes less than the sum of the parts. Meaning, well, literally that you must give up the whole cow to make one little burger, be sure things are worth the sacrifice. Meaning, just about anything you want it too. lol. When deciding the difference between interest and committment, consider a ham and egg breakfast, A pig is committed, a chicken takes and interest. Love is like a box of chocolates. It leaves a hot sticky mess if you have it in the back seat of the car. Never take a laxative and a sleeping pill at the same time. More to follow. Just sayin'.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
wow how time flies when you are having........something.
It's been a while since I posted. Years go by so quickly. Since my last post I fell into a glass coffee table and had a friend not been quarreling with their baby momma and spending the night on my upstairs couch I would have died. I dozed off on the couch downstairs, got up around 4am to pee, put my left leg on the floor, had a wince of pain, compensated with my right leg, listed to my right worse than the Costa Concordia, lost my balance and then yelled "OH FUCK" as I toppled over smashing tempered glass everywhere and ended up needing a drain, 75 external staples, and god knows how many internal stitches. Had my friend not been at my house I would have just prolly wrapped a towel around my thigh and gone back to sleep for.......well, forever, cuz I would have bled out. A week later when I realized I still had my drain and my wound site was green, the trauma surgeon follow-up determined I had a strep infection in the wound site and I needed the drain longer and horse pill sized antibiotics. YEAH!!! Happy happy joy joy! So I recovered and look like I had a shark attack on my right thigh. And that was the start of the whole snowball of doom that took me on a wild roller coaster ride through 2010. to be continued.......
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Tuesday, April 20, 2010
love is like a box of chocolates.
it makes a sticky mess if you have it in the back seat of the car.
strangers have the best candy.
i often run with scissors.
Monday, July 06, 2009
ya know sometimes i am so sad
sometimes i stay on the couch for a couple od days at a time. i do get up to shower though. i think it is coming with age, a feeling of less security and of being less safe than i was. i do not like this aging thing and i do not like having to totally take care of my self. You know i feel grief from my dads death 21 years ago, i feel anger over my mom's death 35 years ago. i have lost a very close friend 2 years ago, another xtrememly close frond died in my pool almost 1 year to the day, and i came home to find a doggie that had been born on my bed 16 years ago dead in front of his dogdoor. i am told i have not worked out my grief yet. i think they are right. i don;t really wanna have much more grief in my live to work out. I always claim i threw 9 family funerals and put the 'fun' back into funeral. that is such a nice and strong attitude to have on the outside, but all my relatives are dead, all their friends are dead, and all i have isme and a few really good friends that come in an emergency, but are busy raising thie own families. Meeting someone on line has never worked really well for me. it;s fun for a little while but leaves you hungry for more. And the guys I always seem to choose don;t seem to work out for me. Arghhhhh we'll see what happens the next session of therapy, which also happens to be the first session ,
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
there always is so much said about teenage angst. unchanneled ambiguous anger fed by frustration at no outlet. what about older angst? once you reach a ceratin age, again you don't fit in and it is more difficult because there are less people to fit in with that like yourself do not fit in. Teens can band to gangs of like, what do we band to? who do we non=conform with. Reminds me of th emonty python skit, hell's grannies. And who remembers that anyway?